Safety Tips

Your safety is our top priority. Please read and follow these important safety guidelines when using our service.

🛡️ Before Meeting

1. Protect Your Personal Information

• Don't share your full name, address, or workplace initially
• Use the platform's messaging system before giving out phone number
• Never share financial information
• Don't share social media profiles until you're comfortable

2. Verify Identity

• Ask for multiple photos or video chat before meeting
• Check if their story is consistent across conversations
• Be wary of anyone refusing to verify their identity
• Trust but verify - don't assume photos are real

3. Research and Trust Your Gut

• Do a reverse image search on their photos
• If something feels off, it probably is
• Don't feel pressured to meet if you're not ready
• Watch for red flags (pressure, inconsistencies, avoiding questions)

📍 First Meeting Safety

Choose a Safe Location

• Meet in public: Cafes, restaurants, shopping centers
• Well-lit areas: Avoid secluded or dark locations
• Busy times: Meet when there are plenty of people around
• Never invite to your home: Or go to theirs on the first meeting

Tell Someone

• Inform a friend or family member about your plans
• Share the location where you'll be
• Send them the person's profile information
• Set a check-in time and stick to it

Transportation

• Arrange your own transportation
• Don't get in their car on the first date
• Keep your car keys handy for quick exit if needed
• Have a backup transportation plan

🚨 During the Meeting

Stay Alert

• Limit alcohol consumption
• Never leave your drink unattended
• Keep your phone charged and accessible
• Stay in public areas throughout the date

Trust Your Instincts

• If you feel uncomfortable, leave immediately
• Don't worry about being rude if you feel unsafe
• Have an exit strategy planned
• Call for help if needed - don't hesitate

💰 Avoid Scams

Financial Scams

• Never send money to someone you haven't met
• Be wary of sob stories or emergency requests
• Don't provide bank account or credit card information
• Watch for requests for gift cards or cryptocurrency

Common Scam Signs

• Profile seems too good to be true
• Quick professions of love or strong emotions
• Reluctance to meet in person or video chat
• Requests for money, gifts, or personal information
• Poor grammar or scripted messages
• Photos appear to be stock images or stolen

🔒 Online Safety

Account Security

• Use a strong, unique password
• Enable two-factor authentication if available
• Don't share your account credentials
• Log out from shared devices

Communication Safety

• Use the platform's messaging system initially
• Be cautious about clicking links in messages
• Don't download files from unknown sources
• Report suspicious behavior immediately

🚫 Recognizing Red Flags

📱 Emergency Resources

If You're in Immediate Danger

• Call 911 (US Emergency Services)
• Text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line)
• Find the nearest police station or safe public place

Report to Us

• Use the "Report" button on any listing or profile
• Contact us at Report Abuse
• Provide as much detail as possible
• We take all reports seriously and investigate promptly

🏥 Sexual Health & Consent

Practice Safe Sex

• Always use protection
• Get regularly tested for STIs
• Discuss boundaries and health status beforehand
• Carry your own protection - don't rely on others

Consent is Essential

• Consent must be clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing
• "No" means no - respect boundaries always
• Consent can be withdrawn at any time
• Being intoxicated means they cannot consent